where butter can fly...

Itz 11pm. My bro just got home, bathed n came straight right into my room... He wanna tell me abt the plan he has for my photo montage... I was like ok... To me I thot it will b smthg like a PowerPoint slides... I m wrong. Totally... He is damn serious about it... He started telling me the concept of motion picture... And how the story will flow... He and his friend even drew out some sketches... I can totally imagine how it looks like... This like REAL business... Ok... I can't wait to do this mini project with him.
And yes... I m taking this whole wedding thing more seriously... And I know that I need to find that projector supplier so that his effort won't b wasted... So v pleased today. Now I can go to bed with a big smile tho I shld b pms-ing today!

Today me n cj were discussing about our to-do list for our wedding... Running through the budgets and stuff... He was telling about the wedding he has just attended last Saturday, about how the bride get all emotional and start tearing... The bride teared while having the silemnisstion (the solemnizer actually made her cry!) and while the groom made his thank you speech. In the end, the bride couldn't make the thank u speech... I suppose even if she did nobody, will b able to figure out what she is trying to say... Haha...
Apart from luffing at others, we r kind of worried for ourself... Will b emotionless, moved to tears or just can't control the luff?( A over-serious solemnizer can be quite funny...)
When it comes to being emotional, cj can b worse than me... Of cos, I teared in the movies... Romantic comedy or those love-die show... But cj, he cried during despicable me and the avengers... I rem I watched this 2 movies with a light heart, only after the movie than I realized there are tears stuck in the end of his nose. Hahaha... What did I left out from those movies, I wonder... But really... Mayb he has a really soft heart...
I hope our wedding does not get too out of control as there may b 2 cry baby in the house... 😁

【男生说：】
有种女生让我很喜欢，却不忍动情..
跟那种女生在一起时，会有种温暖的感觉，那感觉并不出自一时的冲动,而是来自于彼此心灵的了解..

真的，跟那种女生在一起时，只有彼此心中的感动和心灵的交会，没错，当你发现她的心和你是如此贴近时，常会想给她个结实的拥抱，但仅仅在这个想法萌生后的一瞬间..
你们只会相视一笑，有些东西是比爱情更珍贵的。这种女生当女朋友是种浪费..
我害怕她做的我女朋友后,我必须每天守着电话等着她的声音出现，我害怕我必须说些花言巧语的话哄她，更加害怕现实的束缚，会限制住纯洁的心..

这种女生，喜欢，但我不会动情，或者，这就叫红颜知己 或者 蓝颜..
既不用为情所困，为她的行为控制自己喜怒哀乐，又能享有心灵上的交流。有很多人都为交不到女朋友所苦，但我觉得，假如没有了这种知己，人生，便多了许多遗憾..

【女生说：】
有一些男生，很令我动心，但却不会动情..
怎么说呢，因为他们给我的感觉像朋友，真正的朋友 。我可以和他们很坦诚的谈论彼此的爱情、婚姻、人生..以及种种的烦恼..

在他们面前，我会忘记自己是女生，就不会撒娇、嫉妒、小心眼..
我和他们各站在天平的两端，我们可以一同看电影、郊游回来，在车站挥挥手，各自去等自己的车，走自己的路。这种感觉..
是一种很难用语言能形容的愉悦..信不信 ，跟这些男生相处在一起，甚至比跟同类的女生相处来的愉快。女生的聚会，是黏稠稠的，像一锅浓粥，温暖在胸，但是吃多了会撑，一眨眼又饿，而且很多女生都为情所困，谈来谈去总是心有千千结，别人管也管不完..

跟这些男生相处，我很惊讶..他们不必从文字、故事的迷林披荆斩棘，就能一眼洞穿人生的奥秘，甚至开始为旁边的同行者掌灯，能结交有智慧、理想与热情的朋友，是人一生莫大的幸福吧..
我是这样着迷于他们高贵的气质，也感谢他们把我当「朋友」看待，不因为我是女生，就随便说些甜言蜜语来哄我，或者根本不睬我..
如果追求人生的伴侣也必须如此相知相惜，那我实在「舍不得」把这些男生当成男朋友..我害怕一旦变成男女朋友，我就会计较他不送我回家..他不说些好听的动心话..他宁可送我「尼采与上帝」也不送一粒巧克力..我还担心从此他只要我乖乖的陪在一旁，微笑地看他在众人间侃侃而谈，我发问的机会都没有..

【男女之间，其实不只有爱情.. 】
有种友情，是只可会意不可言传的。彼此之间有种惺惺相惜的感觉，不必害怕别人的误会，因为彼此心中坦荡，很喜欢这种“兄弟” 或 “姐妹”之称的友谊..
这种朋友有种信赖的安全感，可以肆无忌惮的说笑，天马行空的胡扯，彼此之间没有包袱，但有种珍惜，是对友谊的珍惜..

你也许会对他(她) 撒娇，但不会妒忌他(她) 对别人也如此，不用再他面前装做淑女..（或不用在她面前装做绅士），有种朋友即使很久没见也不会生疏，相见时的相视一笑，便会有种心有灵犀的感觉，和他(她) 在一起时，不必担心会背叛你，因为他只会给你默默地支持..
即使你受伤了，他也会给你做坚强的后盾。心情不好时，他(她) 会装傻逗你笑..
生病时，他(她) 会叮嘱你要小心什么的..
每逢特别节日时，他(她) 会发一条简信祝福你，很多人都希望有这种友谊，因为它不需要负担与责任，我想这种友谊也要讲机缘吧，友谊也需要关心、谅解、信任。
我希望友谊地久天长..我很珍惜我身边的每一位朋友谢谢你们对我的支持与爱护..

Today is my birthday! I am 26 this year...
I bought a bag for myself this year (ok... half a bag, cos dear dear paid for the other half)... itz a miu miu vitello lux bow bag!... i just scratched it a few seconds ago... pain!

This year... v little pple rem my bday bcos i hide my bday from the fb profile... and hence, only really really close friends rem... the sad thing is... i can count with my own fingers how many they are... lolz... well.. how many pple actually rem other pple's bday apart from their own... i myself cannot rem some of my close friends ones too... was frantically looking up their birth dates in facebook before they hide the dates like me...
i was hoping mag to rem... but she didnt... well... i think she didnt do it on purpose... still my bff... heez...